Resources

If you are in immediate danger, please call 911.

You can reach the Crisis Center of Comal County at 1.800.434.8013 or 830.620.4537.

Teen Dating Violence

What is Teen Dating Violence?

Dating Violence occurs when a person physically, sexually, emotionally, or verbally abuses another person in the context of a dating relationship, when one or both of them is a minor. Dating Violence does not discriminate. It can occur in casual dating relationships and long-term relationships. Relationship abuse is all about power and control. While you may be unwilling or unable to leave your relationship right now, it’s important to remember that abusive partners are unlikely to change their behavior.

Your first priority should always be your personal safety and your safety in the future

    • Checking your phone, email, or social media accounts without your permission.

    • Putting you down frequently, especially in front of others.

    • Isolating you from friends or family (physically, financially, or emotionally).

    • Extreme jealousy or insecurity.

    • Explosive outbursts, temper, or mood swings.

    • Any form of physical harm.

    • Possessiveness or controlling behavior.

    • Pressuring you or forcing you to have sex.

  • Dating abuse is difficult for everyone involved, including people who attempt to offer support. Those who haven’t dealt with dating abuse before sometimes wonder why survivors don’t just leave their partner, not realizing that ending an abusive relationship is far more complicated than other break-ups (which can be challenging in their own right).

    There may be any number of reasons why people stay in abusive relationships. Beyond just understanding and recognizing the warning signs of abuse, one of the simplest ways to support survivors is to understand the complexities of why they may not be able to leave. Visit this website for more resources on how to support others.

  • We empower victims by providing:

    • 24/7 Crisis Hot-Line

    •  Counseling

    •  Legal Advocacy

    •  24/7 Victim Advocacy

    •  Community and Professional Education

    •  24 Hour Emergency Shelter

    •  Case Management